How come people get ugly with me when they don't know I'm having a hard time trying to get married?

I don't get it why people give me a hard time on here and call me a troll when I'm having a hard time getting married. I'm having a hard time trying to marry my fiancee from vietnam because I can't find a job, I tried applying almost everywhere in my town and no place would hire me. She's stuck in vietnam because of this and it is such a huge mess. I lost my other job at KFC after I spilled a big jug of Iced Tea onto a customer while taking it to pour it into the machine. It is so hard to find a job here in San Jose and I don't know why everyone else can find a job so easily while I can't. Why are people being ugly with me while they don't know I'm having such a hard time ?? You people are so cruel if you like to be ugly and mean towards others who are having such a hard time in their lives.